As the new year begins, many of us find ourselves reflecting on our goals and plans for the months ahead. We ask: What should we prioritise? Which path should we take?

While considering these questions myself, I found my thoughts turning to how Jesus faced one of the key moments in his life and ministry, as described in John 13:1:

Jesus knew that his hour had come to leave this world and return to his Father. He had loved his disciples during his ministry on earth, and now he loved them to the very end.

John 13:1

It’s deeply moving to see how, even at such a crucial point, Jesus focused on the people he loved and what awaited all of them.

While Jesus was preparing for what was ahead, with his mind set on heaven, his disciples were still thinking in more earthly terms. This difference is apparent in his conversation with Thomas in John 14:3-5:

When everything is ready, I will come and get you, so that you will always be with me where I am. And you know the way to where I am going.” “No, we don’t know, Lord,” Thomas said. “We have no idea where you are going, so how can we know the way?”

John 14:3–5

Up until then, their experiences had always involved physical journeys and practical actions, so it’s understandable that they struggled to comprehend what would come next. Were they heading back to Galilee to hide from Jesus’ enemies? Or staying somewhere in Jerusalem?

Then Jesus offered a completely new way of thinking about direction:

Jesus told him,” I am the way, the truth, and the life”

When Jesus said, “You know where I am going,” the word ‘know’ here implies a deeper understanding — perceiving or seeing, not just having information. Interestingly, the Latin translation of the Greek word used is ‘_video_’. Jesus is essentially saying: Want to know where we’re headed, what’s coming next? Look at me. Consider the love and trust that has developed between us. ‘I am the way!’ The path forward is found in relationship.

I’m someone who likes concrete plans and objectives, but through my own prayer journey, I’ve realised how true Jesus’ words are. Having a plan is helpful, but looking back, my real journey has been about relationships — with Jesus and with those close to me.

Before you finalise your New Year’s resolutions, pause for a moment.

Allow yourself to ‘watch the video’ that focuses your attention on Jesus and those around you. You might be surprised by what unfolds!